Thursday, June 10, 2010

“Wait, I’m not ready yet!”

Love is something hard to find and hard to keep. We are people sometimes get involved with individuals that we never see ourselves with. The women or men that are not really attractive but have some type of quality that we fall head over heals for. Then they are the one’s that physically appeal to us but “they don’t have a bucket to piss in or a window to throw it out.” So what happens if you find that perfect one? The person that you are physically and mentally attracted too. Also, their presents excites you and makes you long to be with them every waking moment of the day. But, you are not ready to start a relationship with them.

It is time to give up on your goals and aspirations to start building a strong foundation for your love. Time to stop playing the field and start living true to who you are and became to become a faithful and commented partner. Some might quote pastors and say that you have to stop making those silly excuses and start living the life you were made for because this is a “BLESSING.” While others might say that he/she is your perfect mate and that you have to do this to keep yourself happy.

On the other hand my thoughts about starting a relationship is totally different. The understanding between two parties on timing is critical and either can lead to the growth of a fruitful and promising relationship or to the death of two individuals. One can say that he is missing his blessing and never be able to find a girl/guy like the one who he is with. However, rushing someone into relationship status is undesirable and will lead to a relationship built on a rush process that contains no love. Barriers could be broken and trust could be held. Two individuals stuck in a relationship that killed the single word that brought them together, “LOVE.”

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